Alright, let me take you back to 2017. I was feelin' myself—Warren + Forrest was my dream, my shot. Originally, Warren + Forrest was supposed to be a Christian blog (yeah, I know, crazy), a place to talk faith and fellowship. But when my first client hit me up—a lifestyle blogger who kept me working—I had to pivot. Flowers took over, and the Christian blog got pushed way to the back. So, faith? Fellowship? Those ideals were in the rearview while I hit the gas on the flower game. It was like, “Forget the faith; it’s about the hustle now.”

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The business was poppin’—big events, bouquets for days. But you know what wasn’t poppin’? My spirit. Faith had checked out, and fellowship wasn’t real. I was fakin’ it, just going through the motions. And while I was blowing up in the business world, inside, I was fading. By 2022, it was like I was watching myself from outside my body. I had become someone I didn’t even recognize. The flowers looked good, but I was losing my roots.

The people around me? They weren’t it. They saw the success, the shine, but not the struggle. I had lost touch with the ones who saw me for my true gifts and soul. And man, I hated who I was becoming. Anxiety? Burnout? Fake smiles and late nights? That was my reality. But here’s the thing about God—He’ll let you run, but He’ll bring you right back to Him when it’s time.

So, when Warren + Forrest fired me (or maybe I let it go), it was like a divine breakup. It hurt, but it was necessary. God knew I needed to say goodbye to the façade and get back to the real me. And I was free—free to be Ronisha Arlene, not some character I’d created to please others. I got to come back to the woman God always meant for me to be.

Now, I’m pouring my heart into this blog, telling my story, and walking in faith like never before. I don’t know where this will lead, but I’m here for it, letting God call the shots. And yeah, I still love some trap music and a good curse word now and then (Glorilla, I see you!). But my soul? My faith? Solid.

This is why Ronisha Arlene is a thing.

This is for the person who’s lost their way, looking to get back to themselves. If you’ve burnt out, chosen the job over your own peace, chased the money instead of the purpose—this is for you. We were made to be in fellowship, to live in joy, not to run ourselves into the ground. I don’t know what “your” thing is but know this: you are meant for a better life. A life that lets you enjoy everything God has in store for you.

Join this movement of living beyond the grind. Be over just living to work; start working to live. This is the only life we get, and it’s your time to make it count. So let’s live.

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